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Virtual writing
My favorite online forum, where I’ve been a member for over a year, yesterday offered me the chance to revise my username. The original pick I made was not helpful in SEO terms, so I happily decided to take up their offer. But what to change it to? My actual business name, Virtual Writing & Communications, seemed too long and difficult for a username.
It was a useful exercise, one that reminded me how useful it is to bravely strip down to essentials. Rather than padding, setting up fluffy barricades to protect your identity and meaning, the trick is to chisel down to the core and then surface with a simple, naked, unadorned truth.
(If you Twitter often and well, you can appreciate the power of brevity. If you’re a poet, you know real poetry is stark, not ‘flowery’ at all.)
So my username has become plainly, ‘virtual writing.’ And of course, I can’t just accept that, but have to consider the precise meaning of those words. We have fiction and non-fiction writing, we have journalistic, poetic, and prose styles. And now we have this new form of writing that’s called ‘virtual writing.’
What distinguishes this new form? We can infer that the ‘virtual’ qualifier at least points to the internet, and probably involves product delivered digitally. Further, I’d like to suggest that virtual writing is writing tailored to the speed and engagement level of the internet; to the ‘scanning’ behavior of most people when they browse; to the necessity of SEO; and to a global audience of anyone (as opposed to a much smaller audience of those who choose to purchase your writing.)
So that takes care of the virtual part, but what about the writing part? The internet is about writing in a very big way, resulting in huge numbers of bloggers and online writers who are trying to get their message out, but are seriously compromised by their sub-standard writing skills. We plunge into the opportunities of the internet without solid practice in this skill, and many a post includes misspellings, poor grammar and rhetoric, obvious total lack of proofreading, and other written communication failures.
Does it matter? If most can decipher your meaning even if the writing is terrible, who cares? I think it really doesn’t matter much at first. The reader is there for your message, after all, and if it can be gleaned from the morass, fine. But in the long run, the quality of your writing is a major influence on your reputation. A reader may get a kick out of your post, but will not remain devoted for long if your writing’s not accurate and rich.
I’m passionate about writing, it’s true. Words are objects of great beauty to me. The internet, also, has captured an enormous part of my attention. So I’m happy with this new moniker: ‘virtual writing’ is me!
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Fruits of holiday musings
Two solid weeks of quiet introspection, and here we are back in the real world. A problem with unconstrained free thinking is that it’s extremely hard to focus. Without boundaries, we’re fertile ground for any whim or circumstance.
In the past couple weeks, I’ve read a great deal, and watched an incredibly moving TED lecture, and visited the zoo, and improved my baking skills, and painted. Painting is an especially effective way to brain dump. I ran across this amazing quote from Christopher Alexander (thanks to Gretchen Rubin):
” … the more one understands of painting, the more one recognizes that the art of painting is essentially one way, which will always be discovered and rediscovered, over and over again, because it is connected with the very nature of painting, and must be discovered by anybody who takes painting seriously. The idea of style is meaningless: what we see as a style (of a person or of an age) is nothing but another individual effort to penetrate the central secret of painting, which is given by the Tao, but cannot itself be named.”
Sometimes you paint as worship for the beauty of the world; sometimes you paint as a way to bridge consciousness and truth. When your awareness, hopes, and beliefs seem to get you nowhere in life, using paints is always comforting and affirming. I’d show you some of what I painted, but I keep painting over the same canvas. The value is in the action, not the product.
What’s the result of this vision quest? Well, I’m starting off this new year with great expectations. I’m more dedicated than ever to the search for my deepest authenticity. I have renewed energy for the continuous effort to effectively use my gifts for the benefit of others.
And I’m at last going to move this blog to my own website! I’d originally kept the two separate, to allow for more freedom of expression in the blog. Now I realize that taking the risk of exposing my personality through my blog is an important part of establishing my business. It’s a social media basic! So, as of today, you can find these writings at http://www.asthemoonclimbs.com/blog.php – where you’ll need to re-register the RSS.
I mentally journeyed through many a cosmos over the past two weeks, and wondered at the mysteries and possibilities, and even experienced the despair of overwhelming confusion. But I’ve emerged calmer and more hopeful; and excited about going ‘from strength to strength’ with you as 2009 unwinds.
Brand as discovery
Here’s a lovely line from Julie Anixter on Tom Peters’ blog yesterday:
“… we are all, already, walking brands. We just have to polish them so that we can see them shine.”
This is what social media is about. It helps us to polish our personal or business brand, to give it a shine that brings you the attention you need.
Note that brand is not a creation, but a discovery. You can try to project an artificial brand, but it won’t work in the long run. Brand is an articulation of who we naturally are, the best of our compassionate selves, and it reflects self-knowledge as opposed to cleverness or charisma. Your brand is your birthright, as much a part of you as your face.
In the past, personal brand didn’t matter: one succeeded by conforming personal brand to industrial ambitions. Education and culture did not foster understanding of self on that level. Our new global awareness, however, makes self understanding and articulation of individual thought the first step in becoming a healthy global citizen. It has become necessary to devote time and focus to who we are at core levels.
I’ve said it often, I’ll say it again, along with Dane Rudhyar: to be creative is only to discover what essentially is. Don’t worry about having to make something new; focus on discovering and then articulating the mysteries that are already present.
Standing up against spikes
I’ve got a gripe, and it has nothing to do with this blog. But it’s my blog, and I have eight wonderful RSS subscribers who may by now be used to my flights in all directions, so I’m gonna ‘shout out’ about this issue.
(Now, I’ve been posting here with regularity 3-5 times a week for nine months, and so you may ask why I have just eight subscribers. Reasons may be many, but one for sure is that my viewpoints and voice are fairly peculiar, and perhaps not shared by huge numbers of people. Why do I keep writing? Just practicing scales, like any composer. I may be crazy, but I know this tool is here for my use however I see fit, regardless of the number of fans it attracts. I’m just that selfish.)
Here’s my gripe: spike heels.
I’m a compassionate person, and I don’t like seeing others in pain. The other day, we attended the graduation ceremony at a large university. Nine out of ten women (amongst the 1,000+ graduates) wore spike heels to accessorize their graduation gowns.
Of course, the same phenomenon can be observed on any city street, in restaurants and offices, any place where fashion matters.
Every time I see a woman wedged into these instruments of torture, I feel her pain. I am a woman, I know what it is to wear these modern imitations of the ancient Chinese feet-binding practice. I wear lipstick, low heels, and short skirts. But I simply cannot understand why women, who definitely choose the mutation, continue to patronize the tyranny of spikes.
(To be fair, I see the continued wearing of ties by men in this same anachronistic light. Note, however, that ties pose little health threat, while spike heels threaten the backbone, the core of our vitality.)
Okay, it’s the sexiness factor. Spike heels draw the eye to your butt, and their shiny pointy-ness lends an air of sado-masocism that awakens an excitement residing deep in us all, let’s go ahead and admit it. I understand the allure.
But they are painful to wear and walk in, they cause a dangerous sway in the backbone, they make one unsure of one’s footing, and they perpetuate the pedestal notion of the female. The pedestal notion keeps a woman on the shelf, an object to be used only when the real humans, the men or the masculine, have the whim to activate you.
A few years ago, I watched a high school choral presentation, and the same medieval oppression pervaded there. The girls wore tight dresses and high-high heels; the guys wore loose clothes, and sneakers. It made me so sad. I wish women would be more proud of who they naturally are, instead of accepting pain for the sake of fashion.
So I guess my gripe is not against spike heels themselves, but against the ignorance or weak will or paranoia or fashion slavery or bad education of the wearers. Haven’t decided which possible culprit is most to blame. The fact that these two events – a high school choral performance and a university graduation – were part of the education world certainly suggests our training does not counter this cruel habit.
If you ask a woman who’s wearing these stilettos if she enjoys the experience, she will probably gush eye-rolling thrill about it. But soon as she hits the car, the shoes are torn off with a deep sigh of relief. She thinks she enjoys wearing them, but the truth is she’s horribly uncomfortable.
The potential strength of a full population of comfortable women is not to be underestimated. We must get there, for the continued health of humankind! The reluctance of women to express their true selves, to get beyond vanity, slavery to the patriarch, and the mindset of second-class citizens retards our evolution.
OK. Enough already. Thanks for listening.
Holiday Surprises
Though I no longer count myself a Christian, at least not a practicing one, I was raised staunchly in the tradition. So I know enough to note the absence of one true ‘reason for the season’ in our modern practices – the element of surprise. With Christmas starting right around Halloween these days, surprise is not a word we can generally apply to the holiday.
Think about it, though. Kids creeping down the stairs at 4am, awed at the lit-up Christmas tree. And then finding presents! Isn’t this the stereotype? Santa creeps, too. Presents are supposed to be a surprise. Christ being born was certainly a surprise to everyone. Earlier, people celebrated the beginning of a new cycle, as the days began to lengthen again, and as their hope sparked even in the dead of winter.
Christ’s birth, or some unexpected gift, or the awesome mystery of light appearing in darkness constitute the symbols associated with this mid-winter celebration. As opposed to the circus of holiday frenzy that we know, the stress and press of obligations, temptations, crowds, and yearning that characterize these times; as opposed to something we must prepare for, Christmas, and its predeceasing centuries of amazement at the promise inherent in the darkest of winter days, are about the surprise of it. We’re taken unawares, that’s the thrill of it.
I hope we’ll all experience a good amount of honest surprise this holiday. Even if we generally ‘hate surprises,’ we can at least keep an eye out for the unknown, the brand new, the unplanned opportunities. As we attune to these whisperings, we authentically celebrate the meaning of the holiday.
This is the time when such surprises happen everywhere. If you look calmly and openly, you will see – and enjoy them! May you revel in the gifts you receive.
Why brand?
What is this branding stuff all about? The term’s a household one, but I bet few can give a quick and confident answer to the question. Is your brand your logo, your colors, your slogan, your coolness factor, your success rate? Is it your preferences, your dreams, your skills? If it’s all these many things wrapped up together, how can it be accurately expressed?
Rather than trying to fathom an image of your brand in terms of all these different factors, maybe it’s easier to think of it as the hub of a wheel; a single thing, rather than many things.
How can you arrive at this one thing? What is the single image that comes to mind when you think of your business? If you’re considering personal branding, what is the single thing that comes to mind when you think of work that is fun for you to do?
Hold on a minute, don’t answer those questions yet. Let them settle in your subconscious for a while. Give it some time, and work your way towards the most bare bones honesty you can possibly muster. No one is listening, at this point, so go ahead and be painfully (or gleefully or piercingly or whatever) truthful.
The deeper you get to the heart of what your business means to you – or what you mean to business, in the case of personal branding – the more powerful your expression will be.
The more powerful your expression, the more attention you attract, the easier it is to amass leads for your business or professional progress.
Example: Linda is a fitness coach. She could opt for a generic logo, seek business mostly through referrals, make sure her phone answering machine is turned on, and get by.
Or she could invest some time considering how who she is interfaces with what she does and with the world at large. And by putting in this time at the start, she could realize major growth in returns as her practice continues.
Why? Because she took the time to examine her work in context with everything, and then differentiate it from everything. This allowed her to develop a brand that very specifically defined her services. Her message is crystal clear, and those who are attracted to it come flocking.
Attaining warm leads, in other words, has become a cinch, because her branding does the work for her.
So Linda spends a few days contemplating the question: what is the one image (or word, gesture, sound, concept, or impression) that says succinctly what I’m all about as a fitness coach. Very specifically, what impression do I want my clients to take away with them? What do I want my reputation to be?
As any speaker or teacher will avow, it’s all about the take-away. As any manager will tell you, it’s all about setting up agreed-upon criteria for success. By defining your brand, you make it easy for others to know what to expect from you, to instantly see precisely what they can gain by interacting with you.
Through a few days of processing, Linda comes up with the image of a rocket ship. Don’t ask me how she got there, it doesn’t matter. But by exploring all the possibilities and dimensions, and playing/working continuously with the rocket ship concept, Linda is able to convey to clients and potential clients an extremely personalized – yet accessible – brand.
Maybe your brand is not an image. It could as well be a sound, a pattern, a gesture, a mission or method. Whatever form it takes, it is your guiding light, your home base, your signature. If you give it the time required for deeper discoveries, it will serve you in return many times over.
P.S. I suppose this post is for the go-getters who are impatient with any introspection. It may pertain less to those who get caught in second-guessing and ponder issues too much, never progressing to action. I certainly am not advocating spending all your time thinking about things.
When considering how to identify the hub of your brand’s wheel, reap the best returns of three days at the most. If your ruminations take much longer than that, you’re likely brooding, and it’s time to move on. If you’re capable of adult decision-making, you can trust three days’ consideration of almost any issue.